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WESLEY + NIHARIKA

WESLEY+NIHARIKA

September 23-27 2026

September 23-27 2026

Our Story

It started with a Hinge match. May 2020. Brooklyn had gone quiet — no subways, no rooftop bars, no chance encounters. Somewhere in that stillness, Wes and Nihar found each other. . For two months, they talked. Really talked. By the time they met in person on July 8, 2020, it didn’t feel like a first date. It felt like a reunion sharing pizza and scotch .

Four years later, Wes brought Nihar to Garden of the Gods in Colorado and asked her to spend forever with him. She said yes.

Now they’re bringing everyone they love to Tulum under the Harvest Moon to celebrate their love and dance with the raging waves.

We cannot wait to celebrate life with you!

The Schedule

Sept 24

Arrival

No agenda. Beach, cenote, hammock. Reconnect with people you haven't seen in too long.

Sept 25

Morning: Pithi

Turmeric Ritual, blessings, family. Dress in light vibes, bohemian style (No white, no red)

Evening: Mehndi & Sangeet

Henna, music, family. Come hungry. Come ready to dance. Dress in Gem Tones (no white, no red)

Sept 26

Morning: Wedding

Morning ceremony. Evening reception under the stars. Dress in light colors/ pastels (no white or red)

Evening: Reception

Dinner, toasts, music, moooore dancing Dress in Black Attire (Indian or American)

Sept 27

Departure

Time to bounce

The Schedule

Sept 24

Arrival

No agenda. Beach, cenote, hammock. Reconnect with people you haven't seen in too long.

Sept 25

Morning: Pithi

Turmeric, blessings, family.

Evening: Mehndi & Sangeet

Henna, music, family. Come hungry. Come ready to dance.

Sept 26

Morning: Wedding

Morning ceremony on the beach. Evening reception under the stars.

Evening: Reception

Dinner, toasts, music, moooore dancing

Sept 27

Departure

Time to bounce

The Schedule

Sept 24

Arrival

No agenda. Beach, cenote, hammock. Reconnect with people you haven't seen in too long.

Sept 25

Morning: Pithi

Turmeric, blessings, family.

Evening: Mehndi & Sangeet

Henna, music, family. Come hungry. Come ready to dance.

Sept 26

Morning: Wedding

Morning ceremony on the beach. Evening reception under the stars.

Evening: Reception

Dinner, toasts, music, moooore dancing

Sept 27

Departure

Time to bounce

close to water

close to us

close to water

close to us

close to water

close to us

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Where to stay

We've talked to a few hotels near the venue and locked in the best deals we could. If those don't fit, an Airbnb or any other place in Tulum is very reasonable — we're on the main strip, so most hotels are easy to reach.

Where the events happen

Bring color. Leave the tux.

It'll be 80°F and humid all four days. Lean into light fabrics — linen, cotton, light silk. Bright color is welcome everywhere except the ceremony. Avoid pure white (please save it for the bride). Sand and grass eat heels.

Pithi · Friday morning

Bohemian and easy. Linen, kaftans, flowy dresses. Yellow nods traditional. Sandals, hat, sunscreen.

Mehndi & Sangeet · Friday evening

Festive. Bring color — fuchsia, emerald, marigold. Indian wear or a bright dress. Dancing shoes matter.

Wedding Ceremony · Saturday morning

Semi-formal, tropical-tuned. Pastels, light fabrics. Flats or wedges. Linen sport coat. Tie optional.

Reception · Saturday evening

A step up. Cocktail dress or suit (still no tie). Color is black and gold. Dance floor is the destination.

Bring color. Leave the tux.

It'll be 80°F and humid all four days. Lean into light fabrics — linen, cotton, light silk. Bright color is welcome everywhere except the ceremony. Avoid pure white (please save it for the bride). Sand and grass eat heels.

Pithi

Bohemian and easy. Linen, kaftans, flowy dresses. Yellow nods traditional. Sandals, hat, sunscreen.

Mehndi & Sangeet

Festive. Bring color — fuchsia, emerald, marigold. Indian wear or a bright dress. Dancing shoes matter.

Wedding Ceremony

Semi-formal, tropical-tuned. Pastels, light fabrics. Flats or wedges. Linen sport coat. Tie optional.

Reception

A step up. Cocktail dress or suit (still no tie). Color is back. Dance floor is the destination.

Weather

What to expect during the wedding

Late September in Tulum is warm, humid, and lush — expect tropical afternoons, occasional showers, and beach weather most of the time.

Typical high
88°
Typical low
75°
Rainy days
~14
Humidity
82%

Note: September is peak Atlantic hurricane season. Storms are uncommon but possible — we'll keep guests informed of any disruptions.

10 day forecast
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Anything else.

Questions guests ask most. Anything missing, just reach out.

Yes. All international travelers need a valid passport. Make sure yours doesn't expire within 6 months of your travel date.

Fly into Tulum Cancún International Airport (CUN). It's about 1.5–2 hours from Tulum by shuttle or rental car. We recommend booking a shared shuttle in advance — ADO bus is a budget-friendly option, or private transfers are available.

Yes, we'll arrange shuttles between the main hotel blocks and Blue Venado for all events. More details to come closer to the date. If you need a shuttle from the airport please feel free to reach out and we'll do our best to help find you transport.

Questions? Reach out.
See you on the beach.
© 2026 Wesley + Niharika

The Schedule

The Schedule

Sept 24

Arrival

Arrival

No agenda. Beach, cenote, hammock. Reconnect with people you haven’t seen in too long.

No agenda. Beach, cenote, hammock. Reconnect with people you haven’t seen in too long.

Sept 25

Morning: Pithi

Morning: Pithi

Turmeric, blessings, family.

Turmeric, blessings, family.

Evening: Mehndi & Sangeet

Evening: Mehndi & Sangeet

Henna, music, family. Come hungry. Come ready to dance.

Henna, music, family. Come hungry. Come ready to dance.

Sept 26

Morning: Wedding

Morning: Wedding

Morning ceremony on the beach. Evening reception under the stars.

Morning ceremony on the beach. Evening reception under the stars.

Evening: Reception

Evening: Reception

Dinner, toasts, music, moooore dancing

Dinner, toasts, music, moooore dancing

Sept 27

Departure

Departure

Time to bounce

Time to bounce